Not Your Algorithm's Gift Guide

6 Ideas for Disrupting The Capitalist-Fueled Holiday Buying Frenzy

Before we begin, we want to name the fact that capitalism is all-encompassing, and we are all complicit in the system. While we are continuing to dream of what a world free from capitalism would mean for our schools, families, selves, communities, and world, we acknowledge that these suggestions are mere ways to disrupt not dismantle the system.

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Give an Experience &

Make a Memory

 

We all know that  memories last much longer than another pair of mass produced gloves or a toxin-filled candle, so this year, our top way to disrupt the system is to CREATE MEMORIES with those you love.

  • Host your friends for a homemade meal. For those of us who can’t cook, hate to cook, or are just pandemic cooked out, the combination of delicious foods and friendship is worth far more than some chemical-scented bath bombs.
  • Spend time curating the perfect basket filled with foods and drinks that fill the soul and stomach. Add in a video date to connect and enjoy together.
  • Create something beautiful together. Throw out the rules about what is “good and worthy” that our culture dictates and tap into your own knowledge and that of your community. Need some additional inspiration and support, bring in a local BBIA/LGBTQ+ expert to teach a session.
  • Offer to babysit for your friend’s kids. Pandemic parenting burnout is real.
  • Contribute towards your friend’s therapy or healing sessions to help them get support and work through challenges. Remove the financial barriers that prevent your loved ones from addressing their physical and emotional needs.
  • Send a coaching session voucher to help your loved one process what they are seeing, experiencing, and feeling in the classroom right now. (Or to help them find their next step, if they're ready to leave).
  • Create space for quiet. Offer opportunities for moments of quiet, gratitude, and reflection. Curate your own monthly journal with personalized grounding prompts for your friend or send along our NEW Reflections to Ground You Journal Guide digital download

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Invest in Health

& Well-being

 

 Our culture teaches us that it is more important to spend money on material things than on our health, well-being, and wholeness. It's not.

2

Invest in Health

& Well-being

 

 Our culture teaches us that it is more important to spend money on material things than on our health, well-being, and wholeness. It's not.

  • Contribute towards your friend’s therapy or healing sessions to help them get support and work through challenges. Remove the financial barriers that prevent your loved ones from addressing their physical and emotional needs.
  • Send a coaching session voucher to help your loved one process what they are seeing, experiencing, and feeling in the classroom right now. (Or to help them find their next step, if they're ready to leave).
  • Create space for quiet. Offer opportunities for moments of quiet, gratitude, and reflection. Curate your own monthly journal with personalized grounding prompts for your friend or send along our NEW Reflections to Ground You Journal Guide digital download

3

Share Knowledge

 

We have all been conditioned to believe that physical things are the only types of gifts; however, for centuries knowledge--both communal and individual--has been held as a sacred gift. 

  • Pass down your unique knowledge with those you love by using your skills, giving a tutorial, creating a how-to book, or by creating together.
  • Give books (new or used). We know that the book buying space is super problematic. In our efforts to try to disrupt some of the ways that large corporations undermine authors, our staff has curated two lists for you on our own Bookshop (although we are also all about browsing through your neighborhood library or local, brick-and-mortar, mom-and-pop bookstore to find a book that speaks to you).

TOP STAFF PICKS FOR ADULTS

TOP STAFF PICKS FOR LITTLES 

 

 We are relatively new to this space, but we have loved learning about these beautiful communities that are creating, trading, reusing, repurposing, sharing, and so much more! Here are a few spots that we have been checking out.

  • Tradish Trading an indigenous bartering and trading online community.
  • Anxiety Marketplace a community marketplace organized by two white queer people who are building a circular economy and who donate to liberatory causes
  • Local No Waste or Curb Alert Groups

 

 

 

4

Purchase from Circular Economies or Try No Waste Gifting

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Purchase from Circular Economies or Try No Waste Gifting

 

 We are relatively new to this space, but we have loved learning about these beautiful communities that are creating, trading, reusing, repurposing, sharing, and so much more! Here are a few spots that we have been checking out.

  • Tradish Trading an indigenous bartering and trading online community.
  • Anxiety Marketplace a community marketplace organized by two white queer people who are building a circular economy and who donate to liberatory causes
  • Local No Waste or Curb Alert Groups

 

 

 

5

Make a Donation

Support local organizations that your loved one cares about and allow them to expand their impact. Here are some of the organizations that we are giving to this year.

Anti-Racist Programs for Youth

Yes, we donate to ourselves since our youth-facing free programming is currently unfunded.

You can hear directly from participants in our 12-week program for youth formerly in foster care HERE.

Help us expand our 12-week training to reach more of the most marginalized young people in our country.

Donate Now

Land Back/Real Rent

Our team members have been making contributions to the indigenous communities whose land we currently live on (check out the Sogorea Te’ Land Trust’s Rematriation Guide to learn why this is so important).

Our staff in the Pacific Northwest have been paying Real Rent through Real Rent Duwamish. Here in Jersey, we support Native American Heritage Programs (be sure to also check out their children’s book When the Shadbush Blooms). 

Epitome of Soul

Artistic education & creative growth for local k-12 students.

Donate Now

House of Our Queer

Creating LGBTQ+ Spiritual spaces and PD for more inclusive schools.

Donate Now

Demand Justice

Binghamton Toy Drive for families impacted by mass incarceration in NYS.

Donate Now

Jericho Project

Ending homelessness by providing housing, mental/physical health supports, and employment.

Donate Now

Black Alliance for Peace

A People(s)-Centered Human Rights Project Against War, Repression and Imperialism.

Donate Now

Abolitionist Teaching Network

Developing and supporting those in the struggle for educational liberation. Founded by Dr. Bettina Love.  

Donate Now

Black and Pink

Abolishing the criminal punishment system & liberating LGBTQIA2S+ people & those living with HIV/AIDS who are affected by it.

Donate Now

LiberatED

A social and emotional learning approach to racial justice and healing. A movement. A collective. A path towards liberation. Founded by Dr. Dena Simmons.

Donate Now

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Become a Conscientious Shopper

  If you still have a few folx on your list who will be looking to unwrap something, use your values to guide your purchases.


**It feels SUPER important to note that we do not receive any commission from these links. We are not over here trying to make money off the genius and talent of these folx and organizations! We are just huge fans!**

Blankets from Eighth Generation

These gorgeous blankets are made by community based native artists.

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Apostrophe Puzzles

Check out these beautiful, vibrant puzzles created by artists of color. Apostrophe works to center voices that have historically been left out of the art-making space.

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Mugs from Indigo & Swan

We absolutely love these mugs which were created by artist & activist Ferarra Swan. Check out one of our favorite corners of Etsy.

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Coloring Without Borders

Support Families Belong Together by picking up this interactive, bilingual coloring book which features over 80 international artists.

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Clothes from Grand BLVD

This breathtaking West Philadephia clothing shop is Black-owned and offers sustainably made clothes & accessories.

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Classes from The Pastry Project

Learn how to bake up something delicious and help fund free baking or pastry training for folx with barriers to opportunities.

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 This year, let your values--not the algorithm--help you pick your gifts.